In everything I do, I strive to give God the glory in my thoughts, in my words and in my actions. Whether it’s in my personal life or in a group environment, when I use the Word of God to guide my every day life decisions, the end results are always humbling and amazing. One of the things I appreciate most about my sorority is that we start our chapter meetings off with prayer. When you cover your organization in the blessings and blood of Jesus, it elevates your chapter and chapter members to levels you could never dream of.
During my first year of Greek life, there were things that didn’t align with who I was at my core. As with any organization, sometimes, things can get a little messy. From time to time, internal and external discrepancies can create hostile and awkard situations for members and spectators alike. In those moments when I wasn’t quie sure how to handle these situations, I used my scriptures as a base to level my mind and my emotions.
Because I want you to have a blessed school year (or chapter year if you’re in Grad chapter), here are a few scriptures that will help you re-evaluate, refocus and realign your thoughts, words and decisiosn when you’re placed in difficult circumstances. Love yall!
Proverbs 20:15 :Gold there is, and rubies in abundance, but lips that speak knowledge are a rare jewel.
Proverbs 20:19 : A gossip betrays a confidence; so avoid anyone who talks too much.
Leviticus 19:18 : Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people,but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord.
2 Timothy 2:16 :Avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it will become more and more ungodly.
Titus 3:2: to slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and always to be gentle toward everyone.
Titus 3:10: As for a person who stirs up division, after warning him once and then twice,have nothing more to do with him,
1 Peter 3:9 : Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.
2 Timothy 2: 22-26 :22 Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 23 Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. 24 And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. 25 Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, 26 and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will.
Titus 3:9 : But avoid foolish controversies and genealogies and arguments and quarrelsabout the law, because these are unprofitable and useless.
Matthew 18:15: If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother.
Romans 12:17: Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all.
Proverbs 24:29: Do not say, “I will do to him as he has done to me; I will pay the man back for what he has done.”
Ephesians 4:31-32 : 31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted,forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Ephesians 4:29: Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.
Ecclesiastes 7:1 : A good name is better than fine perfume, and the day of death better than the day of birth.
Romans 12:10 : Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.
Proverbs 22:1: A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, and favor is better than silver or gold.
1 Peter 2:12: Keep your conduct among the Gentiles honorable, so that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day of visitation.
1 Corinthians 4:1: This is how one should regard us, as servants of Christ and stewards of the mysteries of God.
Philippians 1:27: Only let your manner of life be worthy[a] of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or am absent, I may hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving side by side for the faith of the gospel,
1 Timothy 4:12 : Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.
1 Thessalonians 5:11: Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
1 Thessalonians 5:14: And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone.
1 Corinthians 16: 14 : Do everything in love.
Hebrews 13:2: Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
1 Peter 5: 2-3 : shepherd the flock of God that is among you, exercising oversight, not under compulsion, but willingly, as God would have you; not for shameful gain, but eagerly; 3 not domineering over those in your charge, but being examples to the flock.
1 Timothy 3:1: The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task.
Philippians 2:3-4: 3 Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. 4 Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.
James 1:19-20: Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; 20 for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.
Proverbs 13:20: Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.
1 Peter 5:6 :Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time.
1 Timothy 4:16 : Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers.
Romans 12:2 : Do not be conformed to this world,[a] but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect
Matthew 5:16: In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that[a] they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.
Titus 2:7-8 : Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, 8 and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us.
ORGANIZATION, PLANNING, DECISION MAKING
Proverbs 21:5 :The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.
Proverbs 16:3: Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.
Luke 14:28: For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it?
Isaiah 32:8 : But he who is noble plans noble things, and on noble things he stands.
Proverbs 24:3-4 : 3 By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established; 4 by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches.
1 Corinthians 14:40: But all things should be done decently and in order.
Proverbs 19:2 : Desire[a] without knowledge is not good, and whoever makes haste with his feet misses his way.